UMC: Should I stay or should I go?

Published 12:00 pm Saturday, January 14, 2023

Like many other Christian church denominations, the United Methodist Church has had its issues. The most recent and public is the question of whether local congregations are leaving the 12-million-member denomination that has churches on five continents.

UMC Mississippi Area Bishop Sharma D. Lewis addressed the issue on Wednesday, Jan. 11.

“I’ve been your resident bishop for approximately one week (in) the Magnolia State. In the climate of Methodism, I know that our concerns rest with our faith communities, clergy and laity that are disaffiliating from The United Methodist Church,” Lewis wrote in an open letter to the Mississippi Annual Conference.

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Lewis said although her desire was for everyone to “remain in the Wesleyan family,” she understood these individuals or groups desire to leave for several reasons.

“Therefore, I believe that after a faith community, clergyperson or laity discerns another pathway, they must follow it and be obedient to our Lord and Savior,” Lewis said, abiding by the Conference’s established disaffiliation process. 

“There are two gatherings scheduled to process disaffiliations in the Mississippi Annual Conference — one will occur June 28, 2023, during our regular session of annual conference, and the other will take place Dec. 9, 2023, at a called session of annual conference.”

Three churches in Brookhaven currently are affiliated with the UMC — Jackson Street UMC, Kynett Pilgrim UMC and First UMC. 

“Our congregation is discussing it and considering all options. That’s really all I can say,” Rev. Stacy Douglas, pastor of First United, said. “It will affect the community locally, no doubt about it.”

The district website — — directs people searching for information to Ask The UMC, another online source for answers to frequently asked questions.

Some of those questions and answers are:

Is the UMC really splitting? No. The term “split” applies when there is a negotiated agreement within the denomination to divide assets and resources. If an agreement like that were made, the earliest it could be would be at the next General Conference, a national meeting in 2024. What is happening is more accurately called “splintering” — some traditionalist leaders have decided to create their own denomination, called the Global Methodist Church.

Is the UMC asking traditionalists to leave? No. Calls to leave are from other traditionalists.

Is the UMC going to drop all prohibitions related to human sexuality at its next General Conference in 2024? Probably not. (It) will certainly consider legislative proposals (like): authorize clergy who choose to do so to preside at same-sex weddings or union ceremonies (and) to drop the statement “the practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching.”

Is the UMC about to change its statement on abortion from life-centered to pro-choice? No.

The UMC’s Book of Discipline contains language that indicates any church that chooses to disaffiliate must surrender any property and assets of the congregation to the UMC Conference. Ask the UMC states, “Every bishop in the United Methodist Church in the United States is committed to supporting congregations wishing to disaffiliate to do so in accordance with the policies set by that conference’s board of trustees. United Methodist congregations are free to pursue disaffiliation. They are not free to sabotage the ongoing ministry of The United Methodist Church as they do so.”